Self help book review: Stepping stones by Lubhna Dongre

The self help book written by a young girl, who has contacted a large number of people who are considered “successful” in India. The book is a compilation of what these people theoretically say leads to success. The book has some fairly useful chapters on time management, and the young woman has taken a lot of effort to write the book, contacting a large number of powerful people, holding important positions, visiting different places and meeting a large number of people

However like most young people who have limited exposure and lead a sheltered life, protected by their parents the book is largely theoretical, most of the high profile people who are featured, do not tell the truth about the harsh reality of living in India, which is very different from what the mainstream media tells. In India, failure or success largely depends on the family in which a person is born, and for a woman, whether she is good looking, willing to use the casting couch, has powerful boyfriends, lovers

The unpleasant truth, at least in the indian internet sector bribed by google, tata, hard work no longer matters, and indian government is openly involved in identity theft rackets, falsely claims that google, tata supplied goan call girls sunaina chodan, 2013 bsc siddhi mandrekar , cheater housewives like panaji extortionist goan gsb fraud riddhi nayak (who looks like actress kangana ranaut), bengaluru shivalli brahmin nayanshree hathwar, naina,asmita patel, document robbers like indore crooked housewife bespectacled veena who stole the documents of the domain investor , blackmailers like ruchika and other frauds have the impressive resume, investment of a hardworking single woman engineer, to give the sex workers, frauds top R&AW/cbi jobs while the engineer is not getting anything because of resume theft of google, tata, ntro

the fact that these google, tata sponsored goan sex workers , cheater housewife and other fraud R&AW/cbi employees faking a btech 1993 ee degree have never done any work online in their life and have never invested any money online, can be easily and legally proved checking their income tax returns, however the indian government, society, mainstream media, and companies like google, tata are so hopelessly corrupt shameless frauds and liars that this fraud has continued for 10 years now, wasting crores of indian tax payer money. The mainstream media in India refuses to cover any news of the fraud

One of the greatest ironies is how people are talking about hard work when actually it does not matter at all, For example the indian and goan government has been falsely claiming that slim goan bhandari R&AW employee sex worker sunaina chodan, 2013 bsc supplied by google, tata to government employees for sex, is writing this review to give the sex worker a monthly salary and great powers , allowing her to trespass in the house of the domain investor,steal items (allegedly a turtle, coins). However in reality, google, tata suppliedd slim goan bhandari R&AW employee sex worker sunaina chodan, 2013 bsc has never done any work online in her life, yet she openly boasted in panaji, goa that she never did any work online, however the powerful government, google, tata employees who are her lovers and pimps will ensure that she will be promoted as an online expert as reward for her sex services

So for a woman in india to become powerful hard work, effort does not matter, having powerful fraud lovers, sugar daddies and pimps in google, tata, indian government is the quickest route to great power and success, a R&AW/cbi job with fake resume, Honesty also does not matter, as large companies like google,tata have rewarded all those who cheated, exploited the domain investor like bengaluru brahmin cheater housewife nayanshree hathwar, siddhi mandrekar, riddhi nayak, veena, with R&AW/cbi jobs falsely claiming that they own the websites , domain names, have the resume of the domain investor.

For example the bengaluru shivalli brahmin R&AW employee cheater housewife nayanshree hathwar has only done her 2005 bbm from bhandarkar college of arts and science, kundapura,udupi , karnataka , looted the domain investor of Rs 1.1 lakh, is married to a section 420 tata power special electronics division employee, and is only looking after her house and family, However because she has powerful fraud blackmailer relatives hathwar, kodancha , cruel animal like boyfriend puneet in indian government agencies making fake claims, the indian government, R&AW, ntro, google, tata are falsely claiming that the BRAHMIN CHEATER HOUSEWIFE nayanshree hathwar, 2005 bbm has a btech 1993 ee degree, is an experienced engineer, to pay the brahmin fraud a monthly government salary at the expense of the engineer she cheated and refused to reply.
Male engineers with a btech 1993 ee degree of a top college are shameless section 420 frauds, when they put their female classmate under surveillance, falsely claim to know her well, and then steal her resume for well connected brahmin and other frauds like nayanshree hathwar, goan sex workers sunaina, siddhi to get the sex workers, frauds R&AW/cbi jobs at the expense of their real classmate.

In 2018, the domain investor legally owning this website is impersonated by as many as 10 google, tata sponsored fraud R&AW/cbi employees who are getting a monthly government salary at her expenses, while she is getting nothing. At some stage in life, when young, the domain investor was also very idealistic, however she has learned the hard way, that having powerful friends, relatives willing to really help is most important in India, everything else like a degree from a top college, work experience, honesty, hard work, does not matter at all. Engineers are being sold by the corrupt indian intelligence and security agencies in India, proof can be provided . So the information is posted as a social service, so that others do not make the mistakes the domain investor has made.

The domain investor was forced to be explicit because otherwise the powerful fraud lovers, sugar daddies and pimps of slim goan bhandari R&AW employee sex worker sunaina chodan, nayanshree hathwar,riddhi nayak and others would falsely claim that they had written the review, as part of the never ending online fraud masterminded by google, tata since 2010, The later half of the book includes letters from various people, however when the domain investor is trying to get justice end the banking, financial fraud, she is not getting any kind of help or reply, because her correspondence is diverted and stolen by the google,tata sponsored fraud raw/cbi employees.

Otherwise the author has taken a lot of effort to write the book, and it could help others who wish to improve themselves.

Stepping stones, Taking towards the goal
Author: Lubhna Dongre
Publisher: Notion Press, 2018
Pages: 314

Review: Adding Salt to make it Sweeter by Vardhman Jain

“Adding salt to make it sweeter” is a self help book which is a compilation of various anecdotes and stories. Some of the stories are real life incidents, stories told by the relatives and friends of the author and others are compiled from indian mythology such as the life of lord Krishna, the Mahabharata. Other stories are real life scientific incidents like the growth of the arowana fish, which grows depending on the size of the tank it is placed in. In wild the fish will grow upto a length of 3 feet , however in a tank, the size is limited by the tank size. The author indicates that the growth of a person is constrained by the limits he or she places.

The book is divided into 50 easy to read and helpful chapters, each of which highlights different aspects of life. Each chapter ends with a question, asking the person to introspect, about his or her life, and also note down the lesson from each story. Each chapter is only a few pages and can be read separately without losing continuity, making it an ideal book to read while travelling or for a person who is short of time

One of the better stories in chapter 7 is how everyone is interested in getting anything good or prestigious, however almost no one is willing to make any committment, sacrifices of time and money to achieve their goals.This is very relevant in terms of the great domain , financial fraud in the indian internet sector, where many lazy greedy google, tata sponsored cheater women want to be known as domain investors to get great powers, lucrative indian government jobs with salaries , yet do not wish to spend a single penny on domain expenses, taking the risk of investing their money and time finding and managing the domain names.

For example the domain investor owning this website, is india’s largest female domain investor, and allegedly bribed by google, tata as many as 10 lazy greedy google, tata sponsored fraud R&AW/CBI employees faking a btech 1993 ee degree,who are not spending any money online, are falsely claiming to own the domain names of the domain investor to get a monthly indian government salary at the expense of the domain investor. This proves that for the indian intelligence agencieslike R&AW/CBI only lies, fake claims are sufficient for considering a woman to be a online expert, domain investor, she does not have to make any committment, take any risk ,spend any money and time..

The 10 lazy greedy google, tata sponsored goan SEX worker, cheater housewife and other fraud R&AW/CBI employees who did not answer JEE, did not work as engineers, did not invest any money in domain names,do not not any work online and did not open their own paypal account,yet are getting a monthly government salary for faking a btech 1993 degree, domain, paypal account ownership, by offering sex, money and other bribes to top NTRO, CBI, indian security and other government employees are:
slim goan obc bhandari R&AW employee panaji pampered prostitute sunaina chodan, 2013 bsc who fraud ntro employees led by j srinivasan falsely claim was their btech 1993 ee classmate because she offers sex services to top indian government employees with the help of her pimps in google, tata
goan gsb fraud 2012 diploma holder siddhi mandrekar who fraud ntro employees led by puneet j , mandrekar, nayak falsely claim was their btech 1993 ee classmate because she offers sex services to top indian government employees with the help of her pimps in google, tata
gujju domain fraudster asmita patel from thane with straightened hair, and great flirting skills
goan gsb fraud housewife extortionist riddhi nayak who looks like actress kangana ranaut
indore document robber bespectacled housewife veena
fair and lovery indore fraud deepika
eighth standard pass nosestud wearing gujju housewife naina, mother of two sons
shivalli brahmin bengaluru cheater housewife 2005 bbm nayanshree hathwar
karnal haryana mba hr ruchika king
fair skinned architect kalpana natar
So the advice that committment leads to success is not true in India, especially for indian women domain investors, as india’s largest female domain investor is not getting any financial help , orders and is held a virtual prisoner, despite spending a lot of time and money, while all the 10 google, tata sponsored frauds who defamed, cheated, betrayed her are being rewarded by the indian government despite not spending any time and money. Bank details, financial records, income tax returns will expose the great financial fraud of ntro, google, tata, indian government, however the fraud is not being investigated. It is this wastage of tax payer money on world famous frauds, which has led to the financial crisis in India

Similarly R&AW/CBI want to falsely claim that their lazy greedy cheater employees are writing this review and other content on this and other websites owned by the domain investor, google competitor to justify the monthly government salary and great powers these 10 google, tata sponsored fraud R&AW/CBI employees are getting at the expense of the google competitor. However none of these 10 google, tata sponsored fraud R&AW/CBI employees faking a btech 1993 ee degree, are interested in spending the time to read the books, and write reviews, they do not want to make any committment, however they are only interested in getting credit, great powers and a monthly indian government salary at the expense of the real domain investor who is getting nothing, despite spending a lot of time and money.

So at least in the indian internet sector, for well connected lazy fraud mediocre women who do not spend any money and time, without any commitment, google, tata, ntro, cbi, raw will reward them with great powers, a monthly government salary though they are not doing any work online, not investing any money online as proven by their income tax returns. So one of the greatest limitations of the book is that it does not discuss the rampant corruption, nepotism and fraud which is widespread in india in 2017, it takes a rather simplistic view of life

A very well written and produced hardcover book, easy to read, helps to look at daily problems in a new way.

Adding Salt To Make It Sweeter
Author : Vardhaman Jain
Publisher Notion Press 2017
Pages : 192

Review: Open-eyed Meditations, Practical Wisdom for Everyday Life

As Indian society becomes increasingly materialistic and westernized, often most people find that they have to deal with unpleasant situations as they deal with individuals whose value systems, personal and professional ethics are very different from their own. This can cause a lot of mental stress, anger and can lead to mistakes which can be very expensive in the long term. Open Eyed Meditations, a self help book written by Shubha Vilas is a well written book which provides practical advice on dealing with unpleasant situations, events, and emotions like hatred, jealousy, how to get the most benefit from conditions which most will consider hostile, the importance of wisdom, getting honest advice from a wise person.

Till the fifteenth century A.D, India was widely considered to be one of the wealthiest countries in the world, and the fabulous wealth of ancient india is confirmed and documented worldwide. In the book Open Eyed Mediations, Shubha Vilas has drawn extensively from ancient indian mythology , specifically the Ramayana, and the Mahabharata, explaining how right values and the wise decisions taken by Rama, Pandavas allowed them to be victorious in the Mahabharat and conquer their rivals their cousins the Kauravas despite having their limitations in terms of their flaws, lesser resources, making ancient India wealthy. Mahabharata and the Ramayana are the most popular stories in Hindu mythology, which most children in India learn in school, and have also been converted into popular television serials.

Shubha Vilas has repeatedly used various events in the life of the most famous characters in Hindu mythology Rama, Hanuman, Krishna, Yudhistir, Arjuna, Karna, Bhima to illustrate the different facets of human life. For example when Rama was exiled to the forest for 14 years in the Ramayana, instead of being upset by the exile, which denied him the rule of the kingdom of Ayodhya, he took it as opportunity to learn about the different kinds of people, make new friends he would otherwise never interact with like Sugriva, Hanuman and others. He also discusses the strategy in defeating Ravana, the ruler of lanka who had abducted Sita, how Rama was able to select the right person Hanuman for getting Sita from Lanka, how Ravana mistreated his brother Vibhishana who later joined Rama.

Though the Pandavas had many limitations, and character flaws, they were able to overcome their faults by having the right attitude to negative events in their life. For example when the Kauravas got Hastinapura, and the Pandavas were given Indraprastha a barren place, they made the most of the opportunities they got, and made Indraprastha a better place than Hastinapura, which made their cousin Duryodhana jealous. It also explains how Karna was not able to match Arjuna, because he was extremely insecure, because of his poor family background, and would constantly boast to hide his insecurities. On the other hand, Arjuna was secure, and spent his time and resources to perfect his skills, to become the great marksman .

Today when data processing, big data and data analytics are widely used, most organizations and government agencies do not care for wisdom, experienced people, getting the right advice . However Shubha Vilas rightly points that having a wise and powerful advisor can be the greatest asset for any organization, how the Pandavas won the Mahabharata mainly because the wise Krishna, was on their side, though only as the charioteer for Arjuna. Before the Mahabharata began, both Arjuna and Duryodhana approached Krishna for help at the same time, when Krishna was sleeping. Duryodhana sat at his head, while Arjuna wisely sat at his feet, knowing that when Krishna would wake up, he would see him first. Krishna offered the cousins a choice, they could choose his army or him as a person. Realizing that the right advice would help them win the war, Arjuna rightly chose the Krishna, the person, who helped them win the Mahabharata.

The author Shubha Vilas, who is an engineer and lawyer, and has written the best selling book “Ramayana the Game of Life” again displays his mastery over ancient indian mythology while writing this book, incorporating incidents from the Mahabharata and Ramayana in the book seamlessly. While dealing with an unpleasant incident or event, many people will get angry, upset, depressed or let it affect their health, decisions and mental peace. This book helps them deal with the unpleasant situations and thoughts that almost everyone encounters daily , how to deal with provocations, solving the problem matrix. An interesting and eminently readable book, to be reread repeatedly especially when faced with difficult problems.

Book: Open-eyed Meditations, Practical Wisdom for Everyday Life
Author : Shubha Vilas
Published by : Fingerprint! Belief
Year: 2016

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